While we’ve managed to avoid most of the awkward up-front small talk by using apps like Tinder and online dating sites, there’s still no real substitute for being able to walk up to a girl and talk to her. Not only does it facilitate conversation, but it engages women in a way that “Wut u doin’?” never, ever will.
It’s difficult to flirt in person, and our reliance on communication through devices isn’t making things any easier.
But these tips from actual, real women on Reddit might just give you the tools to walk up to a girl at a bar, tap her on the shoulder, then ask, “Wut u doin’?” Or, you know, something a lot smoother.
Use eye contact. It’s a powerful weapon that conveys confidence, security, and command of the situation.
A little flattery, even if well-planned ahead of time, is never a bad idea. And doing it through body language makes it seems more sincere.
If you’re afraid of or wounded by rejection, you’re going to be timid and nervous. The worst she can say is “no,” and (spoiler alert!) some girls are going to say it. You’re not perfect for everyone, so make your peace with it.
Some girls may go for the dark brooding thing, but being pleasant and light is a safer bet.
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